Opening Ceremonies - Everyone should attend!
Kick off the event with introductions, a general overview of everything you need to know, key event hacks, and information on the resorts, schedule, workshops, and more! You won't want to miss this!
Swinky Social: Open Play, Dungeon, + Discovery Topic "Swinky" with Swinky Life
Each night Swinkation is pleased to bring you a one-of-a kind "Swinky Social"! On most nights the event will begin with a short "discovery topic". Following the discovery topic, the tent will be open to social time and sex-positive and kinky play at our beach-tent play space and dungeon!
Discovery Topics:
Each discovery topic will last about 30-40 minutes and consist of a short introduction to the topic followed by Q&A and open discussion. Most topics will be hosted by our presenters and hosts and will include introductions to topics that may be covered in upcoming workshops or other topics that may be of interest to the group. The discovery topic will include open conversation to explore the emotional rewards and reasons for the activity, as opposed to the mechanics of how.
​Monday Topic: A View From the Bottom with Kajira Blue
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Tuesday Topic: Tell me your kink with Arden Solace and HaraBliss
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Wednesday Topic: Hotwifing, Stag & Vixen, & Cuck Open Discussion with Nookie
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Thursday Topic: Toy Tapas Night: Bring and share your favorite toy!" w/ Swinky Life - Bring some of your favorite toys and share what you like about them, maybe even demonstrate them or experience some new toys!
Swinky Speed Dating with Swinky Life
Come join the whimsical fun at the Swinky version of speed "dating"! This is a great way to meet other attendees and connect for possible play, friendships, and you never know what else!
Sunset Play & Beach Photo Shenanigans
Negril is world-famous for its sunsets and we take full advantage during our nightly sunset play and photoshoots! Whether you are a beginner photographer or model, an amateur with a mobile phone or a pro with all the gear, or even if you want to just come play, help, learn, or watch some sexy, kinky content creation, this gathering is for you! Come bring your ideas, shoot, model, hold a light stand, help with props and makeup, tie someone up.
Being in photos is completely up to you, of course! If you want to have your images posted on our social media or websites, please be sure to sign the model release at www.swinkation.com/m. Please note that per our photo policy you can list any limitations you have (e.g. no face, no posting on Facebook, , etc.) and if you ever want anything removed that we posted, just let us know and we'll immediately take it down no questions asked!
Remember that photos can only be taken or posted with the consent of everyone in the photo - please makes sure there are no people in the background without their consent. Please be careful not to point a camera or device at anyone so as not to even give the impression that you may be taking a photo without permission.
Nude Hot Tub Gatherings
The nude-side hot tub re-opens after nightly cleaning at 11pm, along with the bar and nude beach grill. Come join the group for late night snacks and drinks in the giant-hot tub! Shenanigans are permitted and encouraged!
Bridging the Gap between Swinging and Kink with Swinky Life
In this open roundtable forum, we discuss the myths and misconceptions that surround swinging and kink as well as the commonalities between these two communities.
We talk about challenges kinksters can face when engaging with ethical non-monogamists, aka swingers and vice versa. We go in-depth on the differences in consent, negotiation, and social norms and how these ideas are firmly in place in both communities but operate very differently. We share our experiences and answer questions from participants about the swinging lifestyle and our respective journeys into non-monogamy and kink.
Intro to Kink & BDSM 101 with Swinky Life
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​Our entry-level workshop designed for those who don't know much about kink play and are curious to learn. More than just a “kink 101” workshop, We will walk you through the mindset, the attraction, and the psychology behind kink. We review safety and the importance of having consent, even when exploring and playing with spouses and life partners.
This is our intro to everything workshop! We focus this beginner workshop on the softer sides of Sensation Play, Rope Play, Impact Play. We encourage creativity and exploration in the world of “Pervertibles” (using “everyday” objects in your kink play ie. paint stirrers, scarves, rubber bands, etc)…shopping will never be the same!
As with all Swinky Life classes, we provide hands-on demonstration and practice. Attendees leave with the confidence and skills to get folks going and exploring in their bedroom (or hotel room) play.
Setting Boundaries, Agreements & Rules in the Lifestyle with Dr. Stephanie
What are your boundaries, agreements, and rules for the lifestyle? If you have no idea what that means, this workshop is for you! Setting boundaries can be difficult in the lifestyle; however, a lack of boundaries can be detrimental to relationships. Join Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stephanie as she guides you through the art of setting healthy boundaries, agreements, and rules in the lifestyle.
Men's Sexual Health with Dr. Bing Parkinson
Unlock your confidence and vitality with Dr. Parkinson’s Men’s Sexual Health Seminar! Designed for men, this transformative session explores the causes of erectile dysfunction, low libido, and more, with advanced hormone therapies, treatments like P-Shot injections, and targeted individualized care plans. We will bring the cutting-edge treatments and medications to you! Gain actionable strategies and the latest science to enhance your sexual wellness. Walk into any experience with confidence!
Women's Sexual Health with Dr. Bing Parkinson
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Discover a vibrant, fulfilling, intimate life with Dr. Parkinson’s Women’s Sexual Health Seminar! Gone are the days of women’s health being brushed under the rug. Come experience a tailored experience specifically for women, this empowering session dives into the root causes of low libido, vaginal dryness, Infections and treatments, and orgasmic challenges, offering cutting-edge solutions like O-Shot therapy, bioidentical hormones, cutting-edge medications, and stress-reducing supplements. Join us for a fun, evidence-based insights, practical tools, and a supportive approach to reclaim your sexual vitality.
Blind Lust Playshop with Dr. Stephanie
We invite you to participate in "Blind Lust," a workshop facilitated by the esteemed Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stephanie. In this class, designed exclusively for couples or polyamorous groups, you'll delve deep into the art of physical discovery minus the power of sight.
The workshop centers on an intimate exploration known as Sensate Focus, which encourages participants to experience and navigate the sensation of touch mindfully and deliberately. This can lead to more meaningful physical connections and profoundly enhance partner intimacy.
​The Art of Sensual Strap-On Play with Swinky Life
Pegging is one of the most misunderstood—and most rewarding—forms of intimacy. In this class, we’ll break down what pegging is (and isn’t), clear up common misconceptions, and share what we’ve learned from our own experiences. We’ll cover the physical, emotional, and relational benefits, including pleasure, vulnerability, and deeper connection. You’ll also learn the practical “how-to”: anatomy, safety, preparation, equipment, lube, positions, and communication. Whether you’re curious beginners or looking to expand your play, this class offers a supportive, shame-free space to explore pegging with confidence, fun, and openness.
Energetic Alignment for Intimacy with ArdenSolace and HaraBliss
This workshop is designed for romantic partners seeking deeper connection. Need a dose of feeling grounded, present, and connected for two (or more)? Many people practice self-care through meditation, breath work, energy work, mindfulness, and yoga. But have you tried these practices with a partner and a dose of erotic energy? Ooo, kinky!
No "woo woo" or deep esoteric jabbering here—just simple, practical activities anyone can do. In this experiential workshop, we'll explore simple breathing techniques, body postures, intention, and ritual that help partners experience deeper connection and energetic alignment. You don't need to know what a micro-cosmic orbit or chakra is. These practices simply work, whether you've been together for years or just met at the tiki bar! From cultivating peaceful afternoons to experiencing mind-melting sexual bliss, we've got you covered.
As a bonus, our partner alignment tools give you language to ask for energetic alignment, and help you build rituals for daily synchronicity (more happy-connected, less stressed-alone) and even restore peace after stressful moments and arguments.
Talk Dirty to Me! Dirty Talk Deserves a Place in Your Mouth (and in Your Bedroom) with Nookie
Let’s get one thing straight: dirty talk isn’t about being smooth—it’s about being present. Forget porn scripts and 50 Shades clichés; this class is about real words, real desire, and making your partner’s pulse race without tripping over your own tongue. We’ll explore why dirty talk is more about connection than performance, how to get out of your head and into your body, and the simple tricks that make your words land like a lightning bolt. Whether you’re a total beginner or just tired of saying “yeah, you like that?” on repeat, this workshop is your permission slip to experiment, laugh, and discover the hottest language you already have.
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I’m ALMOST There! Orgasms and edging in sexy play with Nookie
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What if the best part of sex wasn’t the finish line—but the delicious build-up right before it? In I’m ALMOST There! we’ll dive into edging, tease, and denial—the sexy art of stretching out desire until you’re begging for release. You’ll learn how to play with that “not yet” sweet spot solo or with a partner, why orgasm control doesn’t require a 24/7 power exchange, and how a little anticipation can turn even ordinary sex into an extraordinary mind game. Expect laughter, squirming, practical tips, and plenty of flirty ideas you can steal for your next scene (or morning wake-up).
Cheeky Business: Why We Love to Spank (and Be Spanked) with Nookie
Why do so many of us crave the sting of a good smack—or the thrill of delivering one? In this playful, hands-on workshop, we’ll explore the psychology of spanking, why it feels so damn good, and how to make it both sexy and safe. I’ll share my favorite techniques as a woman whose hands have become a local fetish, from light taps to deep, thuddy smacks, plus how to read your partner’s reactions and keep the energy flowing. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just want to make your next play session hotter, this class will leave you itching to put cheeks in reach.
​Slippery When Wet: Nuru Massage: Full-Body Connection with Goddess Amina
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Explore an age old traditional Japanese style of touch with a partner or two. Nuru massage, a body-to-body massage technique, uses slippery seaweed gel transforming your entire body into an instrument of pleasure and connection. In this hands-on workshop, you'll pour warm a luxurious gel over your bodies and glide skin-to-skin, exploring different pressures, movements, and positions that heighten sensation and intimacy. Experience the pure bliss that comes with this playful and sexy practice while your bodies slide together in full-body massage.
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Equipment Required: All participants must purchase nuru massage beds in advance of the class. Beds are available for $70 and must be ordered prior to attending. This specialized equipment is essential for the safety and effectiveness of the techniques taught.
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GET YOUR NURU BED HERE - ORDERY BY SEPTEMBER 30TH!!!
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What awaits you:
The History: Journey through the fascinating origins of NURU massage - from ancient Japanese healing temples to modern erotic artistry. You'll understand why this isn't just massage... it's meditation in motion.
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Hands-On Mastery: Step into our custom waterproof play spaces with premium NURU gel that transforms your bodies into instruments of pleasure. No mess, no stress - just pure, slippery bliss.
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Embodied Connection: Learn my signature techniques that blend traditional NURU with embodied awareness. Feel your nervous systems sync as you discover new pathways to pleasure you never knew existed.
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Beyond the Bedroom: These aren't just techniques - they're relationship tools. Build trust, enhance communication, and create intimacy that extends far beyond the physical.
Oral Odyssey with Dr. Stephanie
A combination of two of Dr. Stephanie's signature workshops: "Pleasuring the Penis" and "Pleasuring the Pearl"!
*** These is an interactive, hands-on couples’ workshops where couples can try oral techniques in real time.
*** Bring sheets, towels, and/or yoga mats, or pull of a beach lounger!
Pleasuring the Pearl: Join Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stephanie for an exciting, immersive class, Pleasuring the Pearl. In this class, you will embark on a thrilling journey exploring the entire vulva while pleasure mapping your partner's pearl. With hands-on guidance, you will discover the distinctive pleasures of the G-spot, A-spot, and O-spot. Unveil new erogenous zones and indulge in a sensual experience with your partner. This interactive class is designed for both partners to learn new pleasuring techniques, using your body as a template. Ladies, this experience is all about you enjoying the pleasure and exploration.
Pleasuring the Penis: Join Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stephanie in this engaging workshop designed to explore and master essential pleasuring techniques tailored for his unique manhood. Discover the art of delivering mind-blowing blowjobs and learn how to induce toe-curling orgasms that will have him eager for more. This interactive session allows your partner to learn and practice new techniques using your body as a template, ensuring you can enhance your intimate moments. Don't miss the chance to elevate your skills and deepen your connection.
Gorgeous Rope with TheDuchy.com - Lazarus Redmayne & Kajira Blue
This is an intermediate hands-on rope skill development. It will begin with a short discussion and demonstration of the concepts. If you want to practice you will need rope! Bring at least three long ropes (commonly 26-30’/8-9m). If you have more, bring it so you can practice more than one of these concepts at a time!
The class will cover:
* Qualities that are associated with beauty … and beautiful rope.
* Several techniques to achieve those qualities
* Demonstration and practicum creating one of two gorgeous types of ties:
* Option 1: How to create the chest harness shown on Blue (below).
* Option 2: Corsets – (see below) A little less time-consuming, but with many more options and creative flexibility. When we are done, you will understand how to design your own corset!
Entangled with TheDuchy.com - Lazarus Redmayne & Kajira Blue
This will be a guided discussion on creating a scene with the intention of forming specific emotional experiences and connections with your partner, using rope as one tool in your larger toolbox. It will include demonstration and the opportunity to practice some concepts. Do you want your partner to feel cared for? overpowered? attractive? controlled? sexy? afraid? desired? ... having the skill to craft a specific emotional experience using a variety of subtle and overt techniques adds a new power that can transform your scenes.
Rope needed: To participate in any practice, bring at least one 30' (9m).
Rope Foundations with TheDuchy.com - Lazarus Redmayne & Kajira Blue
This is a beginning shibari class that discusses all the stuff you need to know when just starting out. Not only will we cover fundamental knots and foundational bondage techniques, but safety & risk management, style (looking cool), negotiation, how to evaluate the skill of a top or bottom, and more!
You will learn the 4 Fundamental Knots, the Lark’s Head Double Column, the Lark’s Head Single Column and the Somerville Bowline. We will also demonstrate several harnesses that can be made with just those basic techniques, including: The Unchastity Belt, a custom-fitted strap-on, the Shinju, and one form of box tie.
This is a hands-on class where you will learn knots, ties and techniques to get you started in a fun and risk-aware way!
Chest Harnesses with TheDuchy.com - Lazarus Redmayne & Kajira Blue
This class will go through a series of chest harnesses, demonstrating how they are similar and different—how one often builds on the ideas from another—and instilling an understanding of how you can create your own harness on the fly for your own purposes.
This is a hands-on class and you will leave with practical knowledge and skills. We will cover:
· Bikini Harness
· Shinju
· RopeFairy’s Caress
· Pentagram (Star) Harness
· How these ideas will let you design your own rope Bra if you like
We will also cover how to extend rope when you run out, and various elements of style (Dom-points) and how to “use-up” rope at the end. ;)
Erotic Movement & Chair Dancing with Chasing Querencia
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A Fun & Flirty Chair Tease with Chasing Querencia
Skill level: Beginner to advanced welcome!
Singles and partners welcome
The chair is your throne- own it! This workshop will focus on fun and flirty moves you can do to tease the heck out of your partner. We will learn some beginner friendly chair dance moves that are sure to wow! It's not about complicated movements, it's about confidence! Chair dance is a great way to boost your confidence and feel sexy and empowered. Join this class and surprise your partner after!
Power Dynamics with ArdenSolace and HaraBliss
Whether you’re curious about Dominance/submission (aka Power Exchange or Authority Transfer), a D/s lifestyler, or have never thought about dominance and submission in your romantic relationships at all, this class has gems that will supercharge your romantic life.
We’ll dive into a spectrum model that helps you understand the psychology of power dynamics in intimate relationships. From fantasies like Professor/student, Captor/captive, Predator/prey, Owner/servant, Master/slave, these ideas can take shape in roleplay ‘scenes’ or negotiated lifestyles. We’ll have an eye-opening discussion on the very natural impulses that manifest these fantasies and how they play out in reality. There are 4 aspects, or “levers” in power dynamics. Come discover what they are, what settings “do it” for you, and why!
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You’ll gain the context and language to help you better understand your own power dynamic needs and wants, and how to effectively communicate them to a partner. You’ll leave this workshop equipped with the tools for negotiating deeper, more supportive, peaceful, erotic, and fulfilling relationships whether you’re a dominant, submissive, switch, or keeping it egalitarian.
Swinky Bingo! (Ice Breaker Event) with with Swinky Life
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Kinky Bingo is a playful mix of truth or dare and classic bingo, designed to break the ice, spark chemistry, and encourage lighthearted mischief. Each square is a fun challenge—some flirty, some daring, and some downright ridiculous—all crafted to take the edge off meeting new people. Whether you're here to explore, connect, or just have a laugh, this game makes every interaction a little more exciting. Bring your toy bags, a playful spirit, and an open mind!
Sensory Depravation with Goddess Amina
Explore more layers of kink and deepen into your body with sensory deprivation. Learn practical techniques for safely manipulating your lover's senses while building the unshakeable confidence that makes power play truly transformative. In this immersive 60-minute playshop, you'll experience the different levels of intensity and arousal that comes with losing access to one or more senses. Come ready to explore, experiment, and emerge with the confidence that makes kink feel a bit more safe.